Connection Beyond Death

July 3, 2012

I met Dianna Traina on my 8th birthday.  We went to a birthday party, but it wasn’t mine.  It was for the lawyer my mom worked for.  Her co-worker was Dianna.  Dianna knew it was my birthday because my mom had been talking about it at work, so she brought me a little gift to […]

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Book Preview Chapter One: What Are You Bringing?

June 28, 2012

I’ve begun writing my first book.  There has been so much praise for my Winning the Love Lottery course and what it teaches – really, how it transforms my clients’ dating mindset and experience, that it has to be written.  My clients have asked me to write it. I’ve been working on chapter one, which […]

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The Best Support I’ve Received While Trying To Conceive

June 5, 2012

There are times when very loving, very well-meaning people in my life say things to me that are not helpful during this journey to motherhood.  I could focus on those things. Instead, I mostly focus on the very loving, very supportive women (and a few men) who have helped me through this journey by reaching […]

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Boundaries Are Relationship Roadmaps

May 31, 2012

I  coached someone who was struggling with being upset and obsessing over why a friend of hers was not calling, asking her about things that are important in her life, or making any effort to be a friend lately. At first, she just kept saying she didn’t know why she cared so much, because she […]

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Why Fixing Problems In Your Relationship Won’t Work

April 24, 2012

…unless you both realize why the problems exist and become conscious about creating your relationship going forward. I’m reading Harville Hendrix’s Getting the Love You Want:  A Guide For Couples.  I’m not all the way through it yet, but I have read the foundational theory of his work and had my eyes opened wide about […]

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On the Other Side of Suicide

April 19, 2012

    I have a beautiful friend who teaches in the area of grief coaching and counseling, and she’s much more of an expert in this topic than me, but I’ve had my share of grief and loss in the past six months and I’ve learned a lot about the process. Our brains are wired […]

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Are You Saying Yes or No to Your Spouse?

February 29, 2012

I was cleaning the kitchen and prepping for dinner and admiring to myself how wonderful our marriage is, especially lately, and how much I enjoy when things are going great with my husband. I noted how I had done several things just for him that day:  I went to the post office for stamps that […]

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What My Parents Taught Me About Marriage

February 21, 2012

You have to put your marriage first – before even the children. Some people cringe when I tell them this lesson, interpreting it to mean you shouldn’t prioritize your children.  Of course you prioritize your children, but at the end of the day, at the end of raising your children, you will either enter a […]

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Affirmations To Change Your Life

February 16, 2012

I’ve been talking a lot about affirmations lately. I’ve taught affirmations in my Love Lottery class this season.  I’ve taught a few of my coaching clients how to use them.  I have even had several of my friends ask me how to use them to better their lives. I’ve even had people asking me to […]

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FREE Valentine’s Day Love Vision Board Class

February 9, 2012

On Valentine’s Day, I’m offering you a FREE class that’ll be fun and will spice up your love life, wherever it is now. Did you notice I said, FREE? Details: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 2 PM CT Teleclass To register, email for instructions. All you have to do to enroll free is sign up […]

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